The Purity Project of OKC

If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. 1st John 1:9 (NIV)

Participation in sexual impurity is both sinful and unrighteous.  It is not the life that God has in mind for us and it will block us from many of the blessings He has in mind for us.  Yes, it is true that God blesses both the righteous and unrightesous for God is good even when we are not.  But, there are additional blessings that belong to the righteous that we cannot have if we decide to disobey his will for us. (Read on …)

Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the saints. Ephesians 6:10-18 (NIV)

All of us who are caught up in sexual sins and compulsions, whether we want to admit it or not, made a choice to participate in them. Later on, our ability to choose was greatly diminished as the bondage of addiction and the power of sin overcame us. For those who are not caught in sexual acting out, it seem preposterous that anyone to claim to be a sexual addict or sexaholic. But for those of us who are, or have been, caught within this sin’s grip, we know what it is like to be enslaved to something that we know we need to quit but don’t know how. (Read on …)

No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, He will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it. 1st Corinthians 10:12

For each person there is a besetting sin. But for those of us who suffer from sexual addictions and compulsions, the lust of the eyes is one is the most tempting to us. (Read on …)

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.  And the peace of God, which trancends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.  Philippians 4:6-7 (NIV)

People who have sexual addictions and compulsions, such as the constant viewing of internet pornography, do so for a reason.  They have an inner pain yet to be faced. Rather than examine what’s hurting on the inside, they medicate with sexual pleasure and live in denial about what they are doing. The longer they do this the more pain they create for themselves as grief, shame and blame mount up.  Christ wants to heal our inner condition and stop the cycle pain we keep inflicting upon ourselves.  He wants to replace it with the peace of God. (Read on …)

Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective. James 5:16 (New International Version)

If you are caught in the grip of a sexual compulsion, one of the most frightening things we can think of is telling someone about our problem. We worry about the consequences. Some worry about losing their jobs, their marriages, their credibility, and their standing. We fear condemnation and judgment, most likely because we have been judging and condemning ourselves for a very long time. If we cannot accept ourselves, we are fairly certain that others will reject us too. We know that once the “cat is out of the bag” that there can be no turning back–that something will have to be done. Once we have the courage to admit to ourselves that we have a “problem” the next most difficult step is to actually is to confess to an appropriate person the things we have been doing. (Read on …)